God has given us the special
ability to communicate with one another through spoken language. This makes us different from all other
species in the animal kingdom. Before
babies are able to speak in a discernable language, they are able to understand
language. I find this very interesting
because they are able to communicate their needs to their mother that they are
thirsty or hungry without spoken language.
Instead they use cues such as crying and pointing to something to tell
us what they want or need.
All
babies start to speak at different ages.
There are a variety of factors that will determine when a child will
start to speak, for example, their personality, their abilities, their desire. The question is how do they learn
linguistics? How does a child know that
their mother is showing them a table if they are simply pointing at the table
and saying “table”? How does the child
understand that the mother is not referring to the action of pointing or the
color of the table? Tomasello says that
it is because the children already know the object and the intention of the
mother but they are not able to articulate the sound of the word just yet.
The
child has already been paying attention to the conversations of their parents
for many months by the time they have spoken their first word. They have learned the art of language. They know that one person speaks while the
other is listening and then they switch turns that is children emulate their
parents. They try to speak and know more
vocabulary. Babies learn very fast by
repetition because they hear the same words but in different position and
that’s to help them to build more words.
Tomasello says
that children who spent time with their mothers between 12 to 18 months they
had figured out the words faster because they listened carefully with enough
attention every word that their mother
saying. For example, if the baby looks at a table all the time I have to follow
what is my baby looking at and make contact with him by saying that is table or
this is a black table. This is better than asking him to look at another thing
like look at this it is TV. This is because the children can not change their
attention very fast and if we ask them to change their attention that will
confuse them. From my experiences , when
I speak with my daughter and follow her attention and talk with her about what
she wants to know, it has led her to know more vocabulary and developed her
understanding more and more.
Also, Tomsello
says that “ following in” is the best way to get children to learn more language. It becomes weaker when the children get older.
It is a good way for the babies up to 18 months, but after that we have to use
a new ways to help build more vocabulary in our children memory. In order for children
to add more vocabulary, we need to begin with the words they have previously
learned and from there gradually add to their learning.
In my opinion,
the children have ability to speak but they learn words from the people around
them, that is babies can understand what their mothers saying and doing. When was my daughter 6 months I
played with her, moving my hand and singing a song she started to laughed and to move her hands. When I stopped the song she
started to say some thing and I heard her voice as she said please said that
again or continue.
Children are very smart and we can explore
that through Tomsello when he says babies understand, but they can not talk. The
question I am thinking about relates as to how they understand. I wonder if their
eye contact, face and body language is enough to help them understand what
others saying. For example, last week I went to my friend who has a baby 5
months old. While I was speaking with her mother and her friend, I look at the
baby . As I was smiling, I made contact with the baby. After a while I noticed that she tried to
speak for me and all the time while she looked at me I was wondering if she understood me and if she wanted me to
speak with her .
In conclusion,
humans have a super ability to learn more than that other of animals. We can know
more about that through our children. Babies are smart, creative and have a
good attention spen to learn language from their parents and other people
around them.